During the two years I taught a course in Human Relations for students of Central Wyoming College it struck me that one of the biggest challenges that young people have is in building the proper character to become successful professionals, parents, and friends. Almost every student I encountered was committed to their academic success and acquiring knowledge that would help them succeed as a student and professional. However, many were surprised that the content of the course was so introspective, relating to how they behave.
Most people do not go through their daily lives thinking about what drives their behavior, or how they developed their character. But this is a useful habit to get into. Considering how your behavior shapes the way other people react to you unlocks many doors.
- How did you develop your character?
- Your work ethic?
- Your passion?
- Your commitments to others?
- Who and what influenced you?
The first person that comes to my mind is my dad, and quickly I begin to remember others (teachers, friends, co-workers, role models), who have helped me develop into the person I am today.
Your character evolves everyday, and you can choose to improve or deteriorate the behaviors that help you relate to others. Remember those who have helped you build your character, and think of an additional role model that will help you become ever greater tomorrow.